Does the thought of speaking in front of a group of people leave you weak in the knees? Would you go to great lengths to avoid having to give a presentation? If so, don’t worry…you’re not the only one. In fact, studies show that people fear public speaking more than anything else…even death!
There are many reasons that people fear public speaking, but there are also many ways to overcome this fear. For example, AJ Hoge has created a site that teaches you how to speak and write English properly, this would be helpful for you to get over your fear of public speaking, as once you know how to speak English correctly you should no longer have a fear of public speaking.
Like it or not, when it comes to following your dreams this is one fear you’re going to have to face. Think about it, whatever your dream, there will probably come a time when you’re going to have to discuss your ideas and sell yourself to others. So how can you can get over something so utterly terrifying? Communications coach, Carmine Gallo, says that the key to overcoming the fear of public speaking is NOT to try to completely eliminate the fear but to accept it, reframe it, and control it.
- Accept it: Everyone gets nervous before speaking in front of others, even the most experienced presenters. In fact, cognitive research shows that you would be abnormal if you experienced no anxiety at all.
- Reframe it: Rather than dreading public speaking, look at it as a positive opportunity. A mindset shift will help alleviate some of the fear and anxiety.
- Control it: Remove any unforeseen variables by practicing your speech numerous times before the big day. Most experts even suggest practicing in front of mirror or camcorder so you can critique and enhance your own performance.
Winston Churchill on public speaking:
“There are two things that are more difficult than making an after-dinner speech: climbing a wall which is leaning toward you and kissing a girl who is leaning away from you.”
Are you a dream chaser facing a particular fear? If so, I’d love to hear from you!
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